★★★★★
Over 10,000 real dates created

Skip the chat,
go on real dates.

You4me matches people who take dating seriously. No endless chatting — just real dates, fast.

3x More First Dates
Verified Profiles
72-Hour Date Guarantee

Benefits

Why You4me Leads to Real Dates, Fast

Skip small talk. Meet people who actually want to go on dates

Intentional Dating

No more “Hey” texts or endless small talk. We match users ready to meet— 85% plan a date within 24 hours.

Real Dates, Not Chat Marathons

We prioritize people ready to meet — not just text endlessly.

Feel Safe, Always

Verified profiles. In-app date tracking. Easy reporting.

We remove 99% of fake profiles — industry average is only 60%.

Feel the Spark

82% of You4me users say they felt more chemistry in person than chatting on other apps.

Because sparks don’t fly over text.
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Testimonials

Real Dates. Real People.

Don't take our word for it. We have been using this app for over a year now and have had a great time. We are so happy with the results.

“I've been on more real dates in 2 weeks than I had in 6 months on other apps.”
Jake & Sandy

Jake & Sandy

“After 2 years of ghosting on Tinder, I had my first You4me date within 48 hours. Finally, an app for people who want to DATE.”
Praise & Dewunmi

Praise & Dewunmi

“I loved the verified profiles and date-check feature. Met my boyfriend at a coffee shop—no games, just real vibes.”
Marcus & Sofia

Marcus & Sofia

Our Users Don’t Just Match. They Meet.

Safety

Stay Safe While Dating

We make dating feel safe from swipe to meetup.

Verified Profiles Only

Everyone verifies with ID + selfie. No bots. No fake profiles.

Quality Over Quantity

We limit weekly dates to keep matches real and intentional.

Instant Reporting & Action

Flag concerns, get fast help without tolerance for safety violations.

Date Request Screening

All meetup proposals are reviewed for appropriateness before being delivered.

Dating Safely with You4me

  • Verify first

    Be sure to look out for the blue check.

  • Public meetings ONLY

    Coffee shops, parks, restaurants not apartments or hotels.

  • Share plans

    Let friends know where you’ll be.

  • Arrive & leave separately

    Stay in control of your transport.

No chatting. More real dates with verified users. But always stay safe: meet in public, tell a friend, and trust your gut.

Match. Set a Date. Meet Offline

Your Next Date is only 4 Taps Away

No more pen pals—just real dates with verified singles who actually want to meet.

  • checkMatch with verified singles who are ready to meet
  • checkNo endless chats—just real plans, fast
  • checkChat opens 3 hours before the date so you can confirm plans
  • checkBuilt-in safety features so you can focus on connection
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FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

Still have questions? Contact our team via support@you4me.social

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You4me focuses on facilitating real-life dates rather than endless chatting.
Just send a date request to someone you're interested in meeting, or take the initiative to create your own unique date.
You4me verifies all date requests and profiles. Additionally, You4me limits the number of dates users can create within a specific time frame. You4me, however, encourages users to follow safety guidelines and exercise caution when meeting new people.
Yes! You4me allows you to chat with your match starting 3 hours before your scheduled date. Our platform prioritizes in-person meetings, but we understand that a brief chat before the date can help break the ice.
Yes, ensuring the security of user data is a top priority for You4me. The app employs advanced encryption methods and follows industry best practices to safeguard your personal information.